Getting through divorce can be extremely stressful, and even the most straightforward Oregon divorces take six months or longer to complete. This period of personal upheaval often creates loneliness and a pressing desire for companionship.
While it is certainly understandable to want to move on and begin dating during the divorce process, it is essential to understand that doing so may seriously complicate your case. At Helzer Cromar & Schneider, our metro Portland divorce attorneys are committed to offering clear, direct legal guidance to each client we serve. This includes helping ensure our clients think through personal decisions associated with dating.
Clear Counsel on Risks and Costs of Starting a New Relationship
We know from extensive experience representing both men and women in Oregon family law matters that dating at any level or conducting an affair while your divorce is in process may:
- Cause escalation of any disputed issues in your case, turning what might otherwise have been a relatively affordable "no fault" divorce into a contested divorce that must be resolved through mediation or trial
- Negatively impact your ability to achieve your important child custody and parenting time goals
- Influence a judge's view of your part in causing the divorce — even though there may be no truth to allegations that you became involved with your dating partner before deciding to divorce
- Lead to less favorable outcomes in financial aspects of divorce such as property division and spousal support orders if you begin sharing a home and expenses with your new partner
- Ultimately increase the costs of finalizing your divorce by many thousands of dollars if any of these issues arise
Consult a Balanced, Knowledgeable Beaverton Divorce Lawyer
While we keep an objective view of our clients' situations and refrain from personal judgments, there is no denying the potentially harmful and costly consequences of dating during divorce. The personal stakes are high during any family law dispute, and working with an experienced lawyer you can talk to and trust to provide honest, forthright counsel is essential.
To schedule a consultation focused on key issues specific to your divorce, including your own or your divorcing spouse's dating behavior, call 503-608-7851 or contact us by e-mail today.
